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Wednesday 4 March 2015
THIS WEEK BOOK ; My Maid Invests in the Stock Market...and Why You Should, Too
THIS WEEK BOOK ; Compound Effect BY Darren Hardy.
Tuesday 27 January 2015
This week book ; The Obstacle Is the Way (The Timeless Art of Turning Trials into Triumph by Ryan Holiday).
BOOK SUMMARY ; Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl.
Saturday 10 January 2015
BOOK ; TOP TEN DISTINCTIONS BETWEEN WINNERS AND WHINERS
Thursday 6 November 2014
BOOK NOTES; Getting Things Done - David Allen
If you’re ready to stop stressing and start accomplishing your goals, David Allen’s Getting Things Done can help you create a simple, effective personal productivity system.
About David Allen
David Allen is the author of the Personal MBA-recommended book Getting Things Done , as well as Ready For Anything , and Making It All Work. For more information about his work, check out the David Allen’s website.
Here are 10 big ideas from David Allen’s Getting Things Done …
1. If your day-to-day life is out of control, it’s almost impossible to think strategically or plan effectively.
When you’re feeling overwhelmed about how much you have to do (and who isn’t, really?), it’s difficult to focus on ensuring your life and work is moving in the direction you want to go. That’s why it’s important to get control of your daily tasks before working on your big-picture life planning.
GTD is a “bottom-up” approach to productivity. The goal is to establish a sense of comfort and control over the work that’s on your plate right now, so you can free up some mental energy and space to think about the big stuff.
2. Define what being “done” looks like.
Most of the tasks people keep on their to-do lists are “amorphous blobs of undoability” - commitments without any clear vision of what being “done” looks like. That’s a huge problem - your brain is naturally designed to help you figure out how to do things, but only if you know what the end point looks like.
Everything you’re working on should have a very clear stopping point - a point where you know you’re done. If you don’t know what that point looks like, you’ll find it very difficult to make any progress at all. When you’re having trouble making progress, first clarify what being done looks like.
3. Mental work has five distinct phases: Collect, Process, Organize, Do, and Review
Not all work is the same. There are five separate phases of effective work:
- Collecting is the act of gathering inputs: resources, knowledge, and tasks. You’ll have a much easier time making use of your available inputs if they’re all in one place before you begin.
- Processing is the act of examining your inputs: what you can do with the resources at your disposal. This is where you start separating things according to what you’re planning to do next: tasks, projects, future plans, and reference information.
- Organizing means taking the results of your processing and putting it in a system you trust, so you don’t have to remember it all. Tasks go on your to-do list, projects go on a projects list, future plans go into a tracking system, and reference information goes into a file or database you can access easily.
- Doing means working through the tasks you can accomplish right now.
- Reviewing means examining the results of your work, revising your strategy, and improving your systems for better results.
Keep the phases deliberately separate, and you’ll get a lot more done.
4. Get everything out of your head.
Many people try to keep track of everything they need to do in their mind, which is a big mistake. Our brains are optimized for fast decision-making, not storage. Trying to juggle too many things in your head at the same time is a major reason we get stressed out when there’s a lot going on: we’re using the wrong tool for the job.
The best way to stop mentally thrashing and start being productive is to spend a few minutes putting everything on your mind onto paper. You can write or draw - whatever works for you, as long as you can see it when you’re done. Once the information is out of your head, it’s far easier to figure out what to do with it. Even 10 minutes of Externalization can help you feel less freaked out about your workload.
Of course, it’s better not to be freaked out in the first place, so make it easy to capture what you’re thinking on paper. I carry a wallet that has a space for 3x5 index cards and a pen - whenever I have an idea, it’s easy to capture it, even if I don’t have my notebook or computer with me at the time. If you reduce the Friction you experience when capturing ideas, you’ll naturally capture more of them.
5. Projects and tasks are two different things: track them separately.
A major mistake that most people make when keeping track of things to do is conflating tasks and projects. That’s a good way to feel overwhelmed fast - many things can’t be accomplished in one sitting.
For example, I just finished the book I’ve been writing for a little over a year. If I had “write the book” on my to-do list, I’d quickly be overwhelmed - the project was just too big. Instead of “failing” to accomplish that to-do for a year, it’s far better to treat it as a project - something that takes more than one task to accomplish. I can’t “write the book,” but I can complete a small section of the book in one sitting.
Since projects and tasks are two different things, it’s best to keep track of them separately. Personally, I carry a small notebook with me to record active tasks with 3x5 index card inside that lists my active projects. The index card is just the right size to list 4-8 active projects - if I have more than that, I know I’m spreading myself too thin.
6. Focus on the Next Action required to move forward.
Big projects have many steps, and can be overwhelming in their complexity. The key to handling these projects is not to focus on everything that has to be done - that’s a great way to freak yourself out.
Instead, just focus on the very next physical action you need to do to move the project forward. It may be looking up a piece of information, making a phone call, or accomplishing a small task. Whatever it is, it’ll move you closer to completing the project, so don’t worry about everything else - focus only on what you can do right now.
7. Use the “2 Minute Rule” for small tasks.
Don’t worry about tracking small tasks - if you can accomplish the task in less than two minutes, just do it! Writing down every little thing you have to do takes more time than it’s worth - if you need to send a 30-second reminder e-mail to someone, there’s no sense in taking 20 seconds to write it down when you could just get er done.
Personally, I expand this to 5 minutes - the principle is the same. Your goal is to get things done, not to flawlessly capture each and every little thing in your perfectly designed system.
8. Use Reference and Someday/Maybe files for things that have no immediate next actions.
There’s no sense in keeping FYI or long-term dreams in your active daily task tracking system. Reference files are great for storing information you don’t have to act on right now. These files can either be physical or electronic - for example, I keep important paperwork and legal documents in a fire-proof safe, and electronic files and websites in a file on my computer or in Evernote.
Someday/Maybe lists are great for deferring ideas that you’d like to work on someday, but you’re not committing to right now. I have ideas about fun new things do to every day - way more than I have time or energy for. Instead of losing these ideas, it’s far better to capture them in a reference file you can look through later, when you have more capacity. When you’re ready to commit to a new project, the someday/maybe gets promoted to an active project.
9. Build a trusted system that helps you keep track of your commitments.
Your mind keeps things in working memory if it thinks you’ll lose them if it doesn’t. That’s why building a productivity system is important - it helps your mind let go of tracking unnecessary details so you can focus on the task at hand. That’s why Externalization works - when you put something on paper in a place you know you’ll be able to find later, you’re freeing mental resources that can be put to better use elsewhere.
An effective productivity system consists of the following:
- A list of active tasks - next actions you’ve committed to accomplishing in the next few days.
- A list of active projects - 4-20 project you’ve committed to accomplishing in the next few weeks.
- A calendar - commitments to meet with other people in the near future.
- A someday/maybe list - ideas you’d like to explore, but not right now.
- Reference files - information or documents you’ll need to refer to in the future.
- A capture device - some way of capturing ideas or next actions as you think of them.
That’s it, really - you can use any number of tools for the above, as long as they cover those basic needs. Personally, I use a notebook for active tasks, a 3x5 index card in that notebook for projects, the calendar on my computer, someday/maybe and reference files in Backpack and Evernote or physical files, and my 3x5-sized wallet for my capture device.
10. Schedule non-negotiable time for a Weekly Review.
Life moves fast - we often have so much to do that’s it’s difficult to take a step back and examine whether or not we’re getting the results we want. That’s why it’s extremely important to schedule some time each week to do a “Weekly Review.”
Here are a few things you should include in your weekly review:
- Process and organize - anything you’ve collected but haven’t handled yet.
- Review your active tasks - are there any to add, delegate, defer, or delete?
- Review your active projects - are there any to add, delegate, defer, or delete?
- Review your calendar - are there any meetings to add, delegate, defer, or delete?
- Someday/Maybe - anything to add or promote to an active project?
- Reference Files - anything you need soon? Anything to add or update?
- Goals - are you moving in the right direction? Are you making progress? Are any changes necessary?
Don’t skip this review - it’s extremely important if you want to decrease your stress levels. Personally, I find it best to schedule my review for the end of the week: Friday afternoon or Saturday morning. It’s a great way to wrap up the week, feel good about what you’ve accomplished, plan for the next week, and set yourself up for a relaxing weekend.
Developing an effective personal productivity system takes time and experimentation.
Many people get frustrated when adopting GTD because it takes so long to get everything under control. Cut yourself some slack: GTD is a collection of habits, and habits take time to develop. Instead of trying to install everything at once, work on improving in one of these areas until it’s effortless, then focus on installing the next habit. In time, you’ll master them all.
Also remember that the goal of GTD is to make it easier to do work that matters - not procrastinating by endlessly improving your system instead of doing productive work. Try to avoid succumbing to “productivity porn” - experiment constantly, but remember that the most effective systems have the same thing in common: they’re usually the simplest thing that could possibly work. When in doubt, err on the side of doing less.
Book notes from Josh Kaufman.
Book; Choose Yourself - James Altucher
I had heard of James Altucher a few times, but I didn't really know who he is or what he does. I just remember reading a few articles linked to his blog from Hacker News; I do, however, mostly remember his distinct nerdy Jewish look (if you read the book, he has self-deprecating humor regarding being Jewish and nerdy all over it).
I don't really remember how I heard about the book, I just remember reading somewhere about the promotion. If you buy his book and write a review, he'll reimburse you for the book. I don't give a shit about the money for the reimbursement, but fortunately he'll give it charity and I'm given a bit of motivation to read a book and write a review to add content to my blog.
So, what is Choose Yourself about? In short, it feels kinda like a cross between a book written by Tim Ferris, most notably the 4-Hour Work Week, and maybe self-help guru Tony Robbins.
What does that mean? Keep reading.
Becoming a Made Man
I use the term 'made' loosely, but basically to describe how James earned his fortunate. In short, he sold one company, did all of the things that you mentally associate with extremely wealthy people: bought a mansion, lent money to everyone, and gambled until it was all gone.
Depression and suicidal thoughts came.
Choose Yourself Era
The "Choose Yourself Era" is described by Altucher as the present time "that to depend on those stifling treads that are defeating you. Instead, build your own platform, have faith and confidence in yourself instead of the jury-rigged system and define success by your own terms." I don't remember him explicitly mentioning the internet as you might expect.
Permanent Temporarily
This chapter builds a case for you to make a move to self-reliance. Altucher states: "Zero sectors in the economy are moving toward more full-time workers." According to the book, his basis for this statement is some anecdotes about empty office buildings. I'm by no means claiming that he's wrong.
This quote is worth mentioning:
This about a new phase in history where art, science, business, and spirit will join together, both externally and internally, in pursuit of true wealth. It's a phase where ideas are more important than people and everyone will have to choose themselves for happiness.
this as well:
You no longer have to wait for the gods of corporate America, or universities, or media, or investors, to come down from the clouds and choose you for success. In > every single industry, the middleman is being taken out of the picture, causing disruption in employment bus also greater efficiencies and more opportunities for unique ideas to generate real wealth.
Rejection
The chapter on rejection sets the rest of the book up well. As Altucher mentions, we all get rejected at one time or another. One of the keys to success is to get just get over it and keep trying. This reminds me of the following quote:
You miss 100% of the shots that you don't take. - Wayne Gretzky
Also, to those of you struggling with rejection, you may want to check out Rejection Therapy. The whole point of the game is to get rejected every day for 30 days. If you try to get rejected and don't get rejected, you didn't ask for enough and ask for more. Building up a rejection shield is something that everyone who wants to be successful needs to do.
The chapter on rejection also starts to build a base for the foundation of James's philosophy on success: to be successful: you must be physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually sound.
Be Grateful
This is another perspective that I share with James. So many people wonder: "why am I depressed?" When this line of thinking takes hold, it's typically because we're focused on ourselves. When we start thinking about others and what we can do to help others, our mentality shifts into a mode of servant leadership. His book doesn't explicitly state this, but his writing hints that he'd share these thoughts. A good way to shift your mentality out of depression or your rut is to start by being grateful with you have. James recommends that you quite literally count the things and people that your grateful for.
Freedom
A lot of people say: "all I want is freedom." James questions, "freedom from what?" We spend so much time fighting from freedom, but we are already free. He recommends two things to harnessing that freedom:
- Only do things that you enjoy. He goes on to clarify exactly what me means here:
One might say, "Duh, I'd love to do what i enjoy but I have to pay the bills!" Relax for a second. We're going to learn how to do what we enjoy, first. I'm not talking about those "only pursue a career you enjoy" platitudes, either. I mean it down to your very thoughts. Only think about the people you enjoy. Only read about the books that you enjoy, that make you happy to be human. ONly go to the events that actually make you laugh or fall in love. Only deal with people who love you back, who are winners and want you to win too.
- The Daily Practice. He uses the metaphor of our bodies being like galaxies that are empty and we need to find a way to light up our inner sky. We must do the daily practice. We must establish a regimen to protect our heart and the blood that flows through it. Doing this is a function of diet, exercise, sleep and other things.
Daily Practice
Physical Body
- Shit regularly. If you're not, eat better.
- Don't eat junk food.
- sleep seven to nine hours a night.
- Avoid excees alcohol.
- Exercise. (He clarifies that simple walks are fine)
Emotional Body
- Surround yourself with only positive people.
- Avoid people who bring you down.
- You can't be beautiful unless you get rid of the ugliness inside. Poeple become crappy people not because of who they are, but because they are crapping inside of you.
- Most people speak on average of 2500 words a day. Trying speaking about 1000.
Mental Body
- Tire your mind out daily. So it doesn't focus on worry and other crap. Set daily goals.
Spiritual Body
- Give up all thoughts about the past or "time traveling" as he calls it.
- Surrender and trust that you've done the right preparation.
Actionable tips to try once a day:
- Sleep eight hours.
- Eat two meals instead of three.
- No TV.
- No Junk Food.
- No complaining for the entire day.
- No gossip.
- Express thanks to a friend.
- Watch a funny movie.
- Write down a list of ideas.
- Read a spiritual text.
- Try to save a life.
- Take up a hobby.
- Write down your entire schedule that you do daily. Cross off one item and don't do it again.
- Surprise someone.
- Think of ten people you're grateful for.
- Forgive someone.
- Take the stairs instead of the elevator.
- Don't say yes when you want to say no.
- Tell someone that you love them.
- Don't have sex with someone that you don't love.
- Shower and actually scrub.
- Read a chapter of a bio of someone who is an inspiration.
- Make plans to spend time with a friend.
- Deep breathing.
Death
James states that a lot of people want to die. I didn't like this chapter as it didn't resonate with me. He goes off on a tangent on how to get off the grid.
Life
There is nice anecdote about his friend Kamal who is an entrepreneur and became sicker and sicker. Then Kamal started to tell himself that loved himself and didn't want to die. He got better. James states: "when we attach happiness to external goals, we often get disappointed." Kamal even wrote a book: Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends Upon it
Kamal later told James, "When someone is in love, they almost magically look better. I needed to be in love with myself to look better."
James then goes on a tangent about self-publishing.
Find Your Purpose of Life
He makes a compelling case that Colonel Sanders, Rodney Dangerfield, Ray Kroc, Stan Lee, Tim Zagat and Peter Roget didn't find their purpose until way later in life. So it's stupid for people to get worked up or depressed if they haven't found their purpose. He even states that he doesn't really like the word "purpose" because it implies that we're unhappy until we've found it.
Paradigm Shift
"You need to change for the changes that are coming."
- The middle class is dead.
- You've been replaced by technology.
- Corporations don't like you.
- Money is not happiness.
- Count how many people can make a major decision that can ruin your life.
- Is your job satisfying your needs?
- Your retirement plan is for shit.
- Excuses. "I'm too old.", "I'm not creative.", "I need the insurance.", "I have to raise my kids."
- It's okay to take baby steps.
- Abundance will never come from your job.
Let's Get Specific
I really like all of the anecdotes in this book. Especially the one about the origins of Braintree who is now processing over 8 billion dollars in payments per year.
- Take out the middleman.
- Pick a boring business.
- Get a customer.
- Build trust while you sleep.
- Blogging is not about money.
- Say yes.
- Compete with customer service.
Business ideas:
- Make a service business or whatever the cutting edge is on the internet. Start with small businesses, help them with get started with the cutting edge. e.g. setup Facebook fan pages, Wordpress blogs, etc.
- Introduce two people.
- Write a book. (Helps with consulting, paid speaking, and writing opportunities)
- Financial repair. (He goes into detail with good ideas)
Learn Sales
10 keys:
- What's the lifetime value to the customer?
- What are the ancillary benefits of having this customer?
- Learn the entire history of your client, your audience, your readership, and your platform.
- Give extra features.
- Give away the kitchen sink.
- Recommend your competition.
- Idea machine.
- Show up.
- Knowledge.
- Love it.
Idea Machine
I didn't care of this chapter. He recommends that you work the idea muscle in your brain. I guess I didn't like it much because I already have enough ideas generated daily and I don't try much to do it. Furthermore, I see little value in most ideas.
The anecdote about Richard Branson is interesting and you should go Google about him now to read more.
Oxytocin
Oxytocin is the life hormone. You can trick the body into releasing some:
- Give money away.
- Hug.
- Like someone's status or photo on Facebook.
- Laugh.
- Walk.
- Make a phone call to friend.
- Being trusted.
- Listening to music.
- Deep breath.
Honesty & Money
I loved this chapter.
People often think that you have to be dishonest in the world to succeed. This isn't true at all. Dishonesty works, until it doesn't. Everyone messes up.
Honesty Compounds. It compounds exponentially. NO matter what happens in your bank account, in your career, in your promotions, in your startups. Honesty compounds exponentially, not over days or weeks, but years and decades. More people trust your word.
How to be more honest:
- Give credit.
- Be the source.
- Introduce two people.
- Take the blame.
- Don't lead a double life.
- Don't be angry.
- Don't make excuses.
- Make others look good.
- Don't gossip.
- Do what you say you're going to do.
- Enhance the lives of others.
Conclusion
This book has a lot of content. Some that I didn't mention: 1) Alex Day and his story 2) The Curious Case of the Sexy Image. 3) Gandhi 4) Wood Allen. It's jam packed. Some of the chapter titles don't match the content in the chapter. Some of the content feels out of place. Overall, is the book worth reading? If you enjoy reading books self-help books or entrepreneurial books, then you'll definitely enjoy this one. I was in a bit of rut and reading this book gave me enough of a boost to get out of it. These books are like a drug. Typically, their effects give an immediate boost. Some of them help shape the way that you think.
This review was taken from LoudJet